First off, you are very brave in coming here and I applaud you for taking a step towards seeking support.
I do not offer a singular approach to healing because your needs are not that easily defined. So, I use a multi-formatted approach that is crafted to suit your unique situation. You and I will work together at your pace in a safe, non-judgmental environment. You will come to think of your therapy session as an oasis of healing.
One of the first things I do is help you develop trust in the process, in me as your guide, and in your own feelings. You will develop an increased ability to speak about what is really affecting you; you will begin to utilize the healing strategies we formulate; and you will feel the pressure of your problems gradually ease as you start taking ownership of your own healing process.
About Allison Cordner RTCc
I am a trauma sensitive counsellor. While I do not specialize solely in trauma, I have extraordinary empathy for those who have endured abuse of any kind, and bring deep sensitivity, acceptance, and patience to sexuality and intimacy struggles.
My therapeutic style is warm, soft, engaging, expressive, and based on the foundation of building a sense of safety and connection between us.
The style of psychotherapy I practice is transpersonal & informed by Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP). My focus is on your present feelings in relationship to each-other. I use somatic body awareness and attachment theory. I am available to discuss what these terms mean to you and what they may look like in a session together.
Many years of experience as a mother, a portrait photographer working with wide variety of clients, and a history of personal sexual and attachment trauma have informed and influenced my therapeutic work and style.
My focus is on helping people who want a profound sense of connection and engagement with their therapist, and are looking for ways to deepen their mindfulness practices, body awareness, sense of safety, trust, and emotional regulation.
CREDENTIALS & CERTIFICATIONS RTCc, B.F.A
I am certified as a Transpersonal Therapeutic Counsellor by Clearmind International and am presently working on my Master of Counselling Psychology (MA) from Yorkville University and Graduate Certificate in Addictions and Mental Health Counselling from Dalhousie University.
I am a Level One Certified AEDP therapist.
I am training at the Somatic Experiencing Institute to become a certified SE™ practitioner.
Training in Trauma Counselling Certification March 2020
Training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for Couples in Fall 2020
I am a registered Therapeutic Councellor (RTCc ID #2517) with the Association of Cooperative Counselling Therapists of Canada (ACCT)
Student member of The Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association (CCPA).
Affiliate member of the American Psychological Association (APA)
I offer steep discounts for a limited number of patients in financial need who register through Open Path Collective and are approved for the sliding scale service.
My counselling style deals with a variety of issues: trauma; relationship struggles; overwhelming stress and anxiety; feelings of being stuck; depression or undefined sadness; addictions; sexuality; rage; and/or low self esteem due to body image and/or eating disorders.
My therapeutic approach is designed to help you benefit from a way of dealing with your problems that works. Our goal is for you to be a better you, an empowered you, and a successful you.
TRANSPERSONAL PATIENT-CENTERED COUNSELLING
Transpersonal counselling adds a spiritual component to modern psychology. It uses a humanistic, positive approach to healing by exploring your whole makeup – social, spiritual, emotional, intellectual, and physical. It’s a proven, highly-successful method for emotion expansion. I also utilize a combination of Family Systems theory and Attachment Theory, Somatic work, Gestalt Techniques, A.E.D.P. (Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy), and more, all with a Client-Centered Approach. I hold you in the highest positive regard while you make the decisions about what direction your sessions take.
I also incorporate biopsychosocial assessments to help define and pinpoint the compounding difficulties that may be impacting your well being such as for example family and relationship issues, substance abuse, depression, or anxiety, and health challenges.
I will help you learn to communicate your true feelings and to take the emotional risks needed to develop healthier dynamics, leading to more meaningful and connected in your relationships and in your life.
As part of my desire to satisfy the needs of people who are located in different locations or who have difficulty physically or emotionally traveling, I offer sessions using a face-to-face video conferencing platform called ZOOM that allows you to have confidential counselling from the privacy of your home.
Your relationship with your partner is one of the most complex connections in your life. When something goes wrong you feel it, but you may not be able to express what the problem is exactly. To keep trying the same thing over and over but end up in the same place with the same conflict is a common problem. I am there to uncover the communication struggles that are blocking you from vulnerably and from connecting with your partner at the level you so desire. Through relationship counselling I will teach you techniques that will help you settle conflicts, improve your intimacy, rebuild trust, and define your relationship goals.
Using body awareness techniques I will help you regulate your nervous system from experiences of trauma that have affected your sense of vitality and power in the world. I will start by gently expanding your emotional ability to feel sensations coming from traumatic experiences such as accidents, attachment trauma, sexual assault etc. Building the ability to move our way through the immobility response by allowing the sensations one bit at a time to work our way out of the fear responses that got stuck in our bodies. Building a senses of safety and a capacity to deal and feel scary sensations over time.
PHOTO THERAPY SESSIONS
I offer experiential photo therapy sessions as a way to celebrate your relationship to your spouse or partner. They are structure to bring out your inner feelings in connection to your partner.
I guide you through poses and invites that often release a wave of emotions. All expressions are a welcome opening up of your true feelings and are meant to give you a loving and documented connection to your partner.
We will have a consultation prior to our photo session to develop an outline of how to work together and give you a transformative experience. Photo Therapy is designed to be a fun, loving, connective experience, and is meant to celebrate your relationship. You can have it documented in either a beautiful heirloom album or wall portrait as a reminder of your experience and connection to each other.
Tired of feeling stuck? Do you feel like you have so many dreams and projects that never get fulfilled? Athletes know the importance of having a coach who can help them maximize their effectiveness while decreasing their fears in order to be successful at their chosen sport. The same is true for you and your chosen sport: life. I offer life coaching that examines your past and present choices to find better options for your future. It’s a proven way to start meeting your goals and realizing your dreams.
I offer monthly on-line and in-person therapeutic group support, which is the perfect way for men and women to connect in a loving, safe, and confidential environment where you can bring your struggles and your ‘wins’. Group Sessions will be lead by me and one other therapeutic counsellor over the course of multiple weeks. It offers a great way of developing lasting friendships and peer support in your life. Group support is proven to be an extremely effective way to work through mental and behavioral struggles. Feeling a connection to others is the ultimate way to eliminate that feeling of aloneness most of us struggle with.
How do I know if you are the counsellor for me?
You can book a free 15 minute video consultation to see if we are a good fit. I will ask you your goals and let you know if I need to refer you to someone who can better help you.
Will details of our session be shared with anyone?
Before we begin any session we will sign a confidentiality contract. It stipulates that what transpires in our sessions is private and cannot be shared unless you provide consent in writing.There are legal requirements regarding revelation of details that I am bound to follow if one of the following should occur:
The courts subpoena my files. I am subpoenaed as a witness in court. I suspect a case of child abuse that has not been previously reported. In this case I am required by law to report to the Ministry for Children and Families. If you threaten to harm yourself or another. In this case I am also required to report this to the proper authorities.
*Note: These duties override all other claims of confidentiality.
Your Rights and Responsibilities as a Client
It is important for you to understand that you are the primary decision-maker in the direction your therapy takes, and therefore you have the right to full and active participation in the decisions that affect you. In addition, you have certain rights, which include:
1. the right to refuse treatment.
2. the right to end our therapeutic work at any time.
3. the right to receive an appropriate referral to other resources as needed.
4. the right to accept or reject any task, exercise or procedure suggested by me.
5. the right to be made aware of the rationale, risks, benefits, alternatives, and interpretations of any and all counselling interventions.
Policies & FAQ's
Do you have specific times for sessions?
My counselling hours are Monday to Friday – 8 am to 5 pm PST. After-hours and emergency sessions may be available upon request. If you have an emergency and are unable to reach me please call the crisis hotline in your area. http://portfolio.allisoncordner.com/crisis-hotlines
How many sessions will I need?
How many sessions and how often they will be scheduled will depend on several key factors: the type of problem you wish to address, your current level of resilience, your availability, and your finances. We can discuss this during your consultation.
How long do sessions last?
Sessions are generally one hour long but some clients choose to extend their session time by 30 minutes at an additional fee. The first few sessions sometimes take longer as we are just getting to know one another and I will be assessing your history and goals.
What do sessions cost?
One hour sessions are $130 for individuals and $145 for couples; and students are $85. For current rates on Groups see the Group Support page for more information. (BC residents add 5% GST)
What method of payment do you accept?
I accept Interac e-transfer
Visa & Mastercard (4% merchant processing fee will be applied)
If sessions are covered by insurance please contact your provider for details.
What happens if I can’t make a session?
My cancellation policy is simple: you need to provide a minimum of 48 hours notice for all cancellations. Appointments that are cancelled or missed without 48 hours notice will be charged the full amount of the scheduled appointment. You will be charged a half session fee for missed or cancelled appointments unless you have given 24 hours advance notice by telephone or email. I will wait for the entirety of the session if I have not heard from you. Should I, as a counsellor, miss a session or have to cancel within 24 hrs of our session, when we reschedule you will only be charged half price for the next session. The exception to this policy is in the unlikely circumstance that an unforeseeable and unpreventable situation occurred in the last 24 hours that did not allow either party to cancel or attend (accident, injury, illness emergency). In the case of ongoing illness that may foresee-ably cause you to miss our session I would rather have you cancel ahead.
Should you happen to arrive late to a session, we will begin the session when you arrive and still end at the pre-arranged end time. Should I as a counsellor arrive late to a session, we will begin the session when I arrive and you will either be provided with the time on the end of the session, or reimbursed for the time missed. Cancellations or changes to your appointment can be made by emailing or calling my office at (438) 496-8312.
In the case of a declared weather emergency, it is possible for your in-person session to be held at the appointed time by using ZOOM on-line video conferencing.
Contact Between Sessions
You may contact me between sessions by phone, text, or by email. I will contact you back within 48 hours and during office hours. Should it be needed, I provide 10 min of contact between sessions included in the regular session fee. If you need more time than 10 min. you can schedule another 1 hr session between our planned sessions.
Referrals to Specialists
From time to time I will make referrals. When I believe that another professional (doctor, psychiatrist, naturopath) would be therapeutically beneficial for you, we will discuss the suggestion together and I will support the two of you in making contact.
You are welcome to connect with me on my business Facebook page, while my personal Facebook page is for my personal life and I limit that to family and friends. Please do not message me through the social media (facebook, skype, linkedin, etc.) – contact me through my business email or phone please.
Does on-line counselling cost the same as in-person counselling?
Yes. Fees are charged for counselling time not the method. On-line counselling is provided as a convenience to you.